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Wednesday, August 8, 2007

Dear Michelle Cntd...

Wow, you are right, that is a toughie. But, luckily that has happened to me. If he knows then just act normal. Like I said, don't be too flirty, and don't try to make yourself sound like a wonderful girlfriend. Just be there for him when he needs is, but otherwise just be friends. When you can tell he's getting over her start to make a move. Don't be super clingy - guys need time to hang out with guys - but dont ignore him. Just slowly start to flirt. I am kind of going throught the same thing. I don't know if he will end up liking you, but it will help keep your friendship together, and maybe even make you better friends. I wish you the best of luck.

GREY SANDERS
~sincerely yours~

Original Question

i just reread your advice on the other page and realized i made a mistake. in your advice you told me to drop subtle hints that i liked him after he got over his previous relationshionship. this might work for most, but i think my situation is slightly different. one of my friends leaked out that i liked him. he already knows. this makes me feel slightly uncomfortable talking intimately with him because i'm afraid he might think i'm worming my way in while he's still distraught. i really am a mess aren't i? thank you for helping me before, if you don't want to again, i completely understand.michelle.


1 comment:

Anonymous said...

to grey:

thank you again. and what are the chances of that. it is a small world after all.

michelle.