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Tuesday, August 7, 2007

Dear Michelle,

To your luck I most definitely work on relationship advice. I am going to approach this question from experience. I had trouble getting over a girl once, and I knew that several girls liked me. I wanted to move on, but none of the girls really suited me. That is until someone else came along. She liked me, but didn't make it obvious. She was there for me, but the center of our conversation was not about the girl I was getting over. If you didn't get that let me reword it:
~Support him but don't center your conversations around his old girlfriend
~Act as a friend - have fun - but treat him a little differently
~When he starts to get over her, slowly give him hints you like him
~DON'T BE CLINGY
~When you think he is ready have someone tell him that you like him - you can tell him if you want
~Don't rush anything, don't enforce that you like him too much
~Most importantly just have fun, and be a friend who is a little more
I hoped this helped. This happened to me, and I might go out with the girl who liked me. If you have any comments on this advice add a comment to this post. Don't make comments on the request page unless you need new advice. Thank you for giving me a readable question!

Grey Sanders
~sincerely yours~

Original Question:

i know this boy from cross country and he's really cute. i mean, seriously, he is adorable. i really like him a lot but he thinks of me as just a friend. i don't want to approach him because he's still dealing with his last breakup. i really don't know what i should do. HELP.michelle.

3 comments:

Anonymous said...

To Grey:

Thank you so much. I'm not sure if this will help or not but I'll let you know when I do.

Its funny how we all seem to go through the same situations/phases of life.

Michelle

Scarlett Faust said...

I'm going to sound extremely rude, but: what a fruitcake.

Anonymous said...

wow...that was really good. i mean the original question didn't give you much to work with, but you definitely provided her with plenty of info. Great work, cj.